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Trains, Plain and an automobile
It’s been a busy week with job hunting, interviews, and a trip to Birmingham to spend time with my friends. On top of that, today is my birthday, and I’ve travelled to London for an appointment that could have been a phone call. Towards the end of last week, I…
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Procrastination, Laziness and Depression.
The article discusses procrastination as an emotion regulation issue, not laziness. It explores underlying factors such as fear of failure, perfectionism, and preference for immediate rewards. The author shares strategies to overcome procrastination, advocating self-awareness, time management, breaking tasks into smaller steps, and embracing imperfection. Procrastination is redefined as an…
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PSA: Loneliness
The infographic resonated with me and made me question if I’m lonely despite enjoying solitude. It may also be helpful to others. Check out the @RealDepressionProject website for more. #loneliness #selfreflection
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Ups, downs and fundaments
It’s been a long few days, what with looking after two flu-riddled parents and living with a young cocker spaniel. Although I am a guest in the house and living rent-free, I understand that my parents may need my help, regardless of whether or not they want it. So, I’ve…
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Jobs, Seekers and Allowances
In the past week, I’ve been actively seeking new job opportunities, finding more than expected. Despite the lack of immediate responses, I maintain perspective and avoid stress. Simultaneously, I’m supporting my unwell mother, wanting to reciprocate her care as a poignant acknowledgment of our enduring bond. Patience, resilience, and gratitude…
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One Step, Two Step, Three Step, Four.
The past week has been emotionally challenging, marked by job searching and contemplating a location change. Despite feelings of uncertainty and longing for the past, there are glimpses of hope and determination for a ‘new life’ outside London. Through self-reflection and planning, a newfound sense of purpose and resilience is…
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Pie, γγ€ & Ο
The author expresses fear and lack of support while seeking a new job. Despite some positive developments, they struggle with self-doubt and familial criticism. They reflect on learning Japanese and making a pie amidst personal challenges. A compassionate response from an AI prompts them to consider being kinder to themselves.
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I think I was raped…
Reflecting on a traumatic incident during university, the author shares their experience of being sexually assaulted by his landlord. The memory, long suppressed, resurfaced with their battle against depression. Acknowledging the assault’s impact on their life, they bravely confront the truth, recognizing it as rape and deciding to address it…
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The Post Office Scandal and Personal Experience
For the greater part of my career, I have worked for software/solutions vendors and can see a few parallels between my experiences in software and the post-office scandal in the U.K. While I cannot understand how, between Fujitsu and the Post Office, this situation was allowed to happen, I can…
