Category: Family
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Trains, Plain and an automobile
It’s been a busy week with job hunting, interviews, and a trip to Birmingham to spend time with my friends. On top of that, today is my birthday, and I’ve travelled to London for an appointment that could have been a phone call. Towards the end of last week, I booked two-second interviews for the…
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Procrastination, Laziness and Depression.
The article discusses procrastination as an emotion regulation issue, not laziness. It explores underlying factors such as fear of failure, perfectionism, and preference for immediate rewards. The author shares strategies to overcome procrastination, advocating self-awareness, time management, breaking tasks into smaller steps, and embracing imperfection. Procrastination is redefined as an opportunity for growth.
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Ups, downs and fundaments
It’s been a long few days, what with looking after two flu-riddled parents and living with a young cocker spaniel. Although I am a guest in the house and living rent-free, I understand that my parents may need my help, regardless of whether or not they want it. So, I’ve done everything possible to ensure…
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Jobs, Seekers and Allowances
In the past week, I’ve been actively seeking new job opportunities, finding more than expected. Despite the lack of immediate responses, I maintain perspective and avoid stress. Simultaneously, I’m supporting my unwell mother, wanting to reciprocate her care as a poignant acknowledgment of our enduring bond. Patience, resilience, and gratitude are essential in both personal…
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Pie, パイ & π
The author expresses fear and lack of support while seeking a new job. Despite some positive developments, they struggle with self-doubt and familial criticism. They reflect on learning Japanese and making a pie amidst personal challenges. A compassionate response from an AI prompts them to consider being kinder to themselves.
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Embracing Change, slowly, maybe.
Amidst the positivity, anticipation for a fresh challenge and new chapter grows. Restlessness and excitement fuel the need for balance. Recuperation at parents’ home offers introspection, revealing a monotonous cycle. This break becomes a lifeline, shifting focus towards transformative potential. Leaving the hometown signifies progress, though impatience lingers. Slow and steady wins the race.
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New Year’s Eve, Braising Steak & Pinot Grigio
The author reflects on New Year’s, plans positive changes for 2024 including finding a new job, moving, and getting back into shape.
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Forget to take your meds last night ✔️, nearly forgot this morning ✔️, Christmas Day today ✔️. 🤪
Christmas days are often stressful, but it’s the day before my partner died 8 years ago, so it’s an emotional day for me. It started with me realising I’d forgotten to take my antidepressants and blood pressure medication last night… which generally plays havoc with my mood. After helping with the food prep yesterday, we…
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OK, Stress and a side of chips.
Well, it’s Christmas Eve, and as ever, my parents are getting stressed with everyone. Despite doing as much prep as is possible before cooking the Christmas dinner tomorrow my mother is worried that we will never be ready on time. My father has turned of the power to his remaining two brain cells and is…
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Madness, Confusion and Chippy Chips
I’m struggling with family dynamics and feel unheard. I realise I avoid conflict and worry about asserting myself. Cooking offers are ignored.
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